What’s one piece of conventional advice that you disagree with?

We love rebels and people who challenge the status quo, conventional wisdom and mainstream narratives and so we asked some really bright folks to tell us about one piece of conventional advice they disagree with.

Since I was young, I often heard that I should focus on practical matters rather than emotions. What I disagree with is not just advice but a societal phenomenon. Our society, with its focus on rapid change and progress, has neglected the importance of emotions. The constant shifts and fast-paced nature of our world have led us to see emotions as inefficient and unnecessary. Korea, where I grew up, also underwent rapid economic and cultural growth, particularly during my formative years, which were marked by extreme cultural and technological advancements. This exposure made me acutely aware of how emotional numbness takes hold. Read more>>

The conventional wisdom of prioritizing debt repayment over saving is a cognitive trap that’s costing consumers hundreds of millions in lost wealth. This outdated mental model leverages loss aversion bias, making people feel good about eliminating debt while blind to the opportunity costs of delayed investing. Read more>>

One piece of conventional advice I always hear is to stay in your lane. I disagree with this advice. My diverse career in communications, VIP services, and modeling has shown me the value of stepping outside of your comfort zone and becoming a disruptor. Read more>>

Reading Rhythms came from a real need to slow down and rediscover the joy of reading in a world that’s always online. It all started with a simple idea: create a space where people could disconnect, focus on their reading goals, and connect with others over great books. What began as a cozy gathering of ten book lovers on a Brooklyn rooftop quickly grew into a movement. The idea of unplugging and diving into real conversations around books caught on fast, and before long, there were waitlists with hundreds of people eager to join in on these tech-free, laid-back literary hangouts. Read more>>
