We asked some folks we admire to share one piece of conventional advice they disagree with.

Rachaelmaye Aronoff

I don’t agree with the idea that you have to pick one thing and focus on it exclusively. In my experience, that kind of tunnel vision has actually been stifling. Any time I’ve told myself I have to be just an actor or just a producer, I end up feeling stuck and uninspired. Read More>>

Jaye Ladymore

YOLO – Hear me out! I absolutely believe in living life to the fullest. We do in fact only have one life on this earth and we ought to make the most of it. However, I find that this expression is used more as an excuse to buy that expensive pair of shoes or take that trip that you have no money for and we wonder why we have so much debt. Go on that trip! Treat yourself! Just do it wisely. Read More>>

Kate Ziuz

Just be yourself, and confidence will follow.”

While authenticity is essential, this advice oversimplifies confidence and presence. High-achieving women don’t struggle with who they are—they struggle with how they present who they are. Confidence isn’t just an internal feeling; it’s an external skill that must be refined, practiced, and aligned with one’s ambition. Read More>>