We asked some of the best parents we know to tell us about the most important thing they’ve done as parents and have shared their wisdom below.

David De La Torre

As a working father of a 6 year old, the biggest lesson I’ve learned is that impact isn’t measured in volume, it’s measured in presence. My daughter’s still young, and I’ve realized it’s not the big trips or curated experiences that shape her. It’s the consistent, intentional moments. Every morning, I walk her to school. Rain, light drizzle, or the usual Southern California sunshine. Read More>>

Sammy OG

When children grow up knowing that their worth doesn’t depend on perfection — that mistakes are part of learning and that their voices matter — they usually become confident, empathetic, and resilient adults. Other people might name different things (like setting boundaries, teaching responsibility, or ensuring education), but all of those grow out of the same root: the parent’s consistent care and emotional presence. Read More>>

Kellen Mori

I believe the most meaningful impact I’ve had on my three daughters has been showing them both compassion and strength. I am a widower—my wife passed away from stage 4 cancer in January 2022. My daughters witnessed me caring for her day and night, ensuring she was comfortable until her final moments at home. Beyond that, I’m an immigrant from Brazil. Read More>>