Meet Connie Costa | Spiritual Life Coach, Writer & Sicily Travel Host

We had the good fortune of connecting with Connie Costa and we’ve shared our conversation below.

Hi Connie, how has your work-life balance changed over time?
I no longer think of it as a “balance” because I’ve realized that framing it that way creates unnecessary pressure. Especially for working moms, the idea of “balancing it all” can feel more overwhelming than empowering. Today, I approach life through the lens of values. I’ve identified my top values, and I consistently make room for them. If something doesn’t align with those values, I give myself permission to say “no”—without guilt or regret.

For me, my top two values are family and career. I’m deeply passionate about both, and I dedicate my energy to nurturing them. For example, if I’m invited to join a group of women for drinks, I politely decline because socializing isn’t a priority for me right now.

This approach hasn’t been without challenges. I’ve faced judgment from people who don’t share the same values or understand why I’d rather spend time with my family than engage in their idea of fun. But for me, it’s simple: when I’m not working—a pursuit I genuinely love—it’s crucial to spend that time with my family. Living in alignment with my values has brought me a sense of clarity and fulfillment that “balancing it all” never could.

Alright, so for those in our community who might not be familiar with your business, can you tell us more?
In my business, I have the privilege of helping people leave the jobs they hate and step into their true life’s purpose. Through private coaching, writing, videos, events, and my personal favorite—transformational retreats in Sicily, Italy—I guide my clients toward profound personal and professional breakthroughs.

My Sicily retreats are a perfect blend of luxury and transformation. Imagine private drivers, gourmet meals prepared by private chefs, stunning luxury accommodations, immersive tours, meditations, massages, energy healing, and deep coaching sessions. Every detail is carefully curated to provide an experience that rejuvenates the body, mind, and soul.

Closer to home, I also host one-day spiritual retreats in the breathtaking setting of Ojai, California.

What truly sets me apart is my journey. I’ve faced enormous challenges that have given me both profound empathy for my clients and a treasure trove of tools to help them succeed. I know firsthand what it feels like to desperately want to make an impact but feel like a failure when things don’t go as planned. I’ve experienced the stress of financial struggle, the heartbreak of being underestimated or dismissed by those I admired, and the disappointment of setbacks in my own business.

But here’s the thing: every trial I’ve faced has taught me lessons that I now share with my beloved clients. I believe in them even when they struggle to believe in themselves. I know they have the potential to create meaningful change in the world, and I’m honored to walk alongside them every step of the way.

This work is more than a career for me—it’s my life’s purpose and passion. Helping others rise into their potential and create lives of purpose and abundance fills my heart with joy every single day.

Let’s say your best friend was visiting the area and you wanted to show them the best time ever. Where would you take them? Give us a little itinerary – say it was a week long trip, where would you eat, drink, visit, hang out, etc.
I love sharing the magic of my beloved Los Angeles with visitors. Here are some of my top recommendations for an unforgettable experience:

Stay: The iconic Pink Palace, also known as The Beverly Hills Hotel—a timeless blend of glamour and luxury.
Breakfast: Indulge in a serene morning at the enchanting Bel-Air Hotel, surrounded by lush gardens.
Afternoon Tea: Treat yourself to an elegant afternoon tea at the Peninsula Hotel, a perfect blend of sophistication and charm.
Dinner: Savor Italian cuisine at its finest at Madeo Ristorante in West Hollywood, a true culinary gem.
Visit: Embrace your inner child with a day at Disneyland or immerse yourself in Hollywood magic at Universal Studios.
Shop: Stroll through The Grove, a vibrant outdoor shopping and dining destination.
Wander: Explore the glamorous Rodeo Drive and its surrounding streets, where luxury and style meet at every corner.

Whether it’s luxury, adventure, or a touch of whimsy, LA has it all!

Who else deserves some credit and recognition?
I want to dedicate this to my beloved mother, a woman I deeply admire and aspire to emulate. I have never known someone more generous or loving toward her family. She is the epitome of unconditional love, radiating warmth and compassion in everything she does.

My mother has been my greatest cheerleader, always there to celebrate my successes and encourage me through challenges. She’s the first person I turn to with good news because I know her joy will surpass even my own. Her unwavering belief in me has been a constant source of strength, and she has always pushed me to pursue my dreams while supporting me in every way imaginable.

As an entrepreneur her entire life, she embodies resilience and ambition, managing so much with grace and determination. She truly is the definition of a boss lady. Her ability to balance so much while still pouring endless love into her family is nothing short of inspiring.

If I can give even a fraction of the love and support she has shown me to the people I care about, I will feel like I’ve won at the game of life. Words will never be enough to capture how much I admire and cherish her, but I hope this dedication reflects a glimpse of her incredible impact on my life.

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