Meet Eunice Jaymie Tan | The New IT Girl in LA: From Classroom to Clout

We had the good fortune of connecting with Eunice Jaymie Tan and we’ve shared our conversation below.

Hi Eunice Jaymie Tan, can you tell us more about your background and the role it’s played in shaping who you are today?
I’m Malaysian Chinese, but my story is a bit of a global mix. I grew up living in between Hong Kong, Shanghai, and Melbourne, soaking up different cultures and experiences along the way. Attending international schools exposed me to diverse perspectives, shaping my worldview and identity. I have strong Asian core values but a Western sensibility.

For the last 13 years, I called Melbourne home. I completed my Master’s in Education and spent seven years as a teacher. Everything felt steady and familiar—until I met my husband, a Chinese pop star. Suddenly, life took an unexpected turn. He proposed within months of meeting me, and before I knew it, our photos were splashed across Asian media. I took a leap of faith, packed up, and moved to LA. My life felt like a pendulum at the moment, swinging from one extreme to another. I learnt that my husband comes from a family rooted in entertainment—my sister-in-law was on the Real Housewife of Beverly Hills, and her husband was the director of The Lion King. In just half a year, I found myself immersed in the world of influencing, modeling, and exclusive events. It’s been a whirlwind, but I’ve been rolling with it.

I meet so many interesting people here, and I think the reason this transition has felt so natural is because of my international background. It’s one of my biggest assets by giving me this rare social agility. Being a teacher has sharpened my emotional intelligence, so I’m pretty good at connecting with others with confidence and compassion.

Can you open up a bit about your work and career? We’re big fans and we’d love for our community to learn more about your work.
First and foremost, I’m in a beautiful season of personal growth and learning to be the best wife I can be to my husband. Before this, I was living a life of independence and only living on my own terms. Now I’ve come to understand what it truly means to be part of a team, particularly my role as a nurturer and supporter. It has been very fulfilling for me so far despite taking a break from my career. There’s often this misconception that when a woman isn’t traditional working her 9-to-5 job, she’s less significant or that she’s “just a housewife”. But I’ve come to realize how inaccurate that assumption is. The work I do in nurturing our family and creating a home is incredibly meaningful, it offers me a sense of purpose and a richer understanding of womanhood. It’s shown me that true fulfillment comes from the impact we make, not the titles we hold. Above all, I also recognize how fortunate I am to be in this position.

On top of that, my journey in LA has brought about an exciting shift. I’ve become more open, more connected, and more sociable than I ever was before. One thing that really took me by surprise was how sharing little glimpses of my life—simple moments, photos, and experiences—seemed to resonate with others. It wasn’t something I planned; I didn’t aim to become an influencer. It just sort of unfolded naturally. I still hesitate to call myself that because, to me, what I’m sharing feels so ordinary. But apparently, it’s connecting with people in ways I never expected.

None of this was planned. This complete pivot of trajectory. It’s been a journey of small, organic steps—learning to partner with my husband, moving across the world, and simply saying yes to life and to the possibilities it offers. Along the way, I’ve faced challenges, like trying to balance my personal and public life and just navigating unfamiliar territory overall. But through it all, I’ve learned to trust the process, embrace the uncertainty and let it guide me forward.

I’ll be honest. When I first moved here, I was terrified. For the first time, I didn’t carry labels to establish my identity, and to my surprise, labels like “gold digger” or “passport bride” were thrown at me and there seemed to be a misunderstanding of why I came here. This made me feel lonely and unaccepted. But after a few FaceTime sessions with my. brother, I gave zero thought to the noise and worked on becoming my highest self. I felt that no matter how hard the world pushes against me, there’s something stronger, something better within me, pushing right back. My work now comes from a place of deep inner transformation, where love, responsibility, and intention shapes everything I do. This has changed how I show up in the world and it’s been nothing but freeing.

What I want the world to know about me—and about my journey—is that it’s not about having it all figured out.
It’s about growth, learning, and the beauty of unexpected moments. I’m here, fully present in the chapter I’m meant to be in. Who knows what’s next? But honestly though? I think I’m killin’ it.

Any places to eat or things to do that you can share with our readers? If they have a friend visiting town, what are some spots they could take them to?
San Gabriel Valley, the real Chinatown in LA. Authentic asian eateries and beauty/wellness spas. Asians know what they’re doing. It’s all about indulgence and self-care. I’d dedicate a whole day to it, making it a total wellness reset.

Silverlake to fulfill teenage hipster dreams. Cozy cafes serving the best pour-over coffee, thrift stores, and street art. It feels both gritty and polished. It’s got that edgy vibe that reminds me of Melbourne. That’s probably why I’m drawn to it. I could do without the parking though.

Abbot Kinney in Venice is the epitome of LA beach-town charm. Chic boutiques, and those cool spots with elevated surfer vibes. It’s the perfect place to wander in and out of shops, grab a bite by the ocean, and feel the breeze.

Can’t miss out on Melrose Place; This street feels so LA to me like what you would see in a movie, but with a lot more heart. It’s a mix of glamour and effortless cool. The high-end boutiques and the trees lined up perfectly along the sidewalks make you just want to just stroll down with a coffee in your hand, and just soak in the atmosphere.

To wrap up the week, I’d go to where most of my dates nights happen – Beverly Hills. It’s classic and cliche in the best possible way, like you’re walking through a dream. No explanation needed.

I love that LA is a world of contrasts. Every neighborhood feels like its own little universe. It’s not just a city; it’s a mosaic of experiences. You feel like you’re everything, everywhere, all at once!

The Shoutout series is all about recognizing that our success and where we are in life is at least somewhat thanks to the efforts, support, mentorship, love and encouragement of others. So is there someone that you want to dedicate your shoutout to?
I’d like to give a special shoutout to my husband Jeff and my brother Eugene. They’re not traditional mentors, but in many ways, they’ve been my guiding lights. Jeff has been my rock—his belief in me has made me believe in myself. Even in moments of uncertainty, he’s always reminded me to trust myself. And my brother Eugene—he’s my steady soundboard and silent cheerleader. His wisdom allows me to be reflective and vulnerable, helping me stay grounded and be true to who I am as I continue to evolve. I wouldn’t have the confidence to be my most authentic self today without them.

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