Parenting is an incredibly important responsibility and so we wanted to get a conversation going with input from parents in the community. We asked them: what is the most important thing you’ve done as a parent? We’ve highlighted some of the responses below.

Dawn Asher | Creative Producer & Founder of The Olive Jar

I sat with this question for a long time. Like, weeks. I used to think my kids would just remember my worst moments in conflicts (because I’ve had them), but I’ve been grateful to learn they remember so much more. The most important part of conflict I’ve shown them has nothing to do with holding my tongue or staying calm or making all the right moves…I’ve made the most impact in the repair part. Read more>>

Jasmynn Abernathy | Relationship Therapist & Mental Health Consultant

While my little one is so young, I imagine my being emotionally present for him has been the most impactful. Staying on top of my responsibilities as a working mom challenges me regularly, and I’ve done my best to be mindful of all the beautiful moments I share with my son. Taking care of my mental health by consistently doing things that refresh me and bring me joy and by accessing my support system is crucial to maintain my ability to be an emotionally present mom. Read more>>

Deena Pourang | MD

I am a mother to three amazing, loving, and beautiful children. The most important gift I’ve given to them is the gift of my time. When I became a mother, I stepped back from practicing clinical medicine to focus on being with my children. Starting my own business has given my flexibility in my schedule to continue my full-time work as “mommy.” Our time together is unparalleled and I cherish each experience with them. From changing diapers, to preparing their food, reading books, impromptu dance parties, and singing songs to them at bedtime, each moment is truly a treasure for me. I will always have my medical degree and board certification, but I am doing my best to be present in these fleeting moments with my children. Read more>>

Sofiya Turin | Poet, yogi, educator, life coach

As a parent, I think that the most important thing that I have done for my children thus far is simply allowing them to be themselves. I have given them the time and the space to figure out who they are and what they love without forcing my opinions and preferences on them. I have encouraged them to find their gift and to consider how they wish to share this gift(s) with the world as they get older. Rather than focusing on competition and comparison, I have taught them to be themselves in the unique way that only they can and to know that no matter what, Read more>>

Jared Thurston | Artist

As a parent, my biggest impact I believe to have had on my daughter is cultivating an environment of complete acceptance for individuality. Me being an artist and making expression and knowledge of self a big priority is something that I emphasize heavily with her. I love the idea of her embracing what I took years to learn at such an early stage in her life. Read more>>