Meet Feba Alex | Actress | Model | Writer

We had the good fortune of connecting with Feba Alex and we’ve shared our conversation below.

Hi Feba, how does your business help the community?
People often ask how I expect to succeed in an industry that constantly focuses on external appearances. But I believe the most meaningful things we reveal are not external, but within the soul. What I have to offer lies deeper—in humanity, and in the stories and feelings I carry within me. That is what guides me forward.

I work as a model, actress, writer, and creative. I am nearly four years into my modeling career and eleven months into my acting journey. I know I still have a long road ahead before I can truly make the kind of impact I hope for. But the impact I dream of is simple and meaningful: to tell stories that matter, to make people laugh, and to build a platform that allows me to become a better advocate.

Sometimes it feels less like a choice and more like a responsibility. When you look at the world—at the inequality, the oppression, and the harm people inflict upon one another—it becomes difficult to stay silent.

We must recognize that every person moves through life with different circumstances. There is no single “right” way to live or to navigate the world. Morality does not belong to any one religion or belief system; religion may guide the soul, but compassion, empathy, and peace are human responsibilities because, with or without religion, people have conflict.

At our core, we should be one global society. Yes, we come from different cultures, traditions, and histories—but our capacity for humanity is the same. Too often, our morality shifts when fear takes over. Fear leads us to justify actions we would otherwise question. We excuse ourselves based on circumstance, perspective, or pain.

Understanding this should not divide us—it should humble us. It should encourage us to practice more forgiveness than revenge, more understanding than judgment.

All I can do is continue learning and speak from my lived experiences and understanding, keep my heart open, treat people with kindness, try to solve problems to the best of my ability, and place my trust in God.

Can you open up a bit about your work and career? We’re big fans and we’d love for our community to learn more about your work.
As a young girl, my dream was to compete in a pageant. I used to admire girls who looked like me standing on that stage, winning, and then using that platform to pursue meaningful philanthropic work. I also saw many pageant competitors go on to enter the film industry, so in my young mind, I believed that was the path available to me.

But growing up, I was an awkward child—nervous, quiet, shy, different, and dealt with bullying that shattered my self-confidence and identity. Still, I held on to that dream for a long time, even when it felt like life might pass me by and I would never gather the courage to step onto a stage like that.

So I continued to lean into the things I loved and excelled at—writing, marketing, creating, and finding ways to make art in everything I do.

Then something unexpected happened. It wasn’t until I was 24 years old that, somehow, faith found me. By the time I was 25, it gave me the courage and the wings to compete in Miss California USA 2021. That day quietly set the stage for the rest of my career. I was honored with the Photogenic Award, which marked the beginning of my modeling journey.

Since then, I have been signed with various agencies and have had the opportunity to work with brands such as NYX Cosmetics, Canva, Snapchat, Biolage, Nominal, AT&T, and various commercial and print projects.

But none of it came easily. Nothing was handed to me. Behind every image or opportunity was an enormous amount of unseen work spent to create a foundation. Even now, I wouldn’t say I’m an “established” model. I’m still growing, still learning, and still carving out my place in an industry where rejection is simply part of the path.

And somewhere along that path, another door quietly opened.

Film.

I began working small roles in vertical shorts, getting my first real exposure to sets and the rhythm of production. And something in me lit up. I realized how deeply I loved acting, being on set, and the creative process.

That realization led me to acting school, where I was introduced to Playhouse West.

Acting is an incredibly intricate discipline. Becoming an actor is not a simple climb—it is a long, demanding mountain made of broken steps, humility, patience, and relentless self-discovery. Even trying to explain the acting world is a job in itself, especially when you enter it with no industry connections, and especially when you are an introvert.

But in just 11 months of training, I’ve had the opportunity to work on several short films and even produce one of my own, which is currently being submitted to film festivals.

I also had the incredible experience of working on a feature film, where I was able to observe and work alongside major actors in Hollywood who were so incredibly humble. Being there taught me so much about the craft and the symbiotic relationship between an actor and a director. During that time, I was also fortunate enough to receive my SAG vouchers. Which felt like a lucky break along the journey.

As my training deepens, so does my confidence—to take on more demanding roles, more challenging work, and bigger creative risks.

But one lesson continues to repeat itself: nothing happens on my timeline. It happens on God’s. And somehow, he always knows when I am ready—even when I wish things would move faster. Everything in this industry is built gradually, at least for me it has, and the universe always seems to know when you’re ready for the next step.

As Sanford Meisner famously said, “It takes twenty years to become an actor.”

But this is the work I love. Even though it came to me later in life, it is something I will never stop pursuing. There may be seasons when the financial side of this path is uncertain, but I have never chased money. I believe that when you do meaningful work with good intentions, what is meant for you will eventually find you.

All my art is for people. I hope whenever someone sees or watches what I make, they feel seen, understood, loved, or even human. It is shaped by the pain of my own life, and that is what makes it honest.

I have never taken on a role that left me feeling bad afterward. My faith protects that boundary. I say no to many projects that don’t align with my values or with the way I understand and honor God, and I’ve learned that it’s okay to say no to protect my peace as a person.

Looking back, I realize I’ve had an incredible time building my career thus far—not just because of the milestones, but because I’ve been able to listen to my heart, make mistakes, grow, evolve, and remain free in my choices to choose my path with intention.

When you choose God through your own free will, that becomes the most beautiful relationship of all.

Any places to eat or things to do that you can share with our readers? If they have a friend visiting town, what are some spots they could take them to?
Lately, I’ve been a bit of a homebody and more selective about where I spend my time. Most of my days revolve around a few places that feel grounding to me—catching up at Aroma Coffee & Tea Company, spending hours rehearsing and training at my acting school, and traveling to different corners of the city for film sets or photo studios. It’s a quieter rhythm than people might expect from Los Angeles, but it’s the routine that keeps me focused on my career.

At the same time, LA is a city that never really runs out of things to discover. There are hidden gardens tucked into neighborhoods, beautiful museums, cozy cafés, scenic hikes, and little pockets of nature scattered everywhere.

You can spend one day watching the sunset along the coast in Malibu, another hiking up to Griffith Observatory and looking out over the entire city, and the next wandering through the vibrant food stalls at Grand Central Market in Downtown Los Angeles. Then there are the quieter, more reflective places like the Natural History Museum or Descanso Gardens.

That’s what makes Los Angeles so special to me—it’s not just one place, it’s a collection of worlds all living side by side with creative people working to make their dreams come true. From historic neighborhoods to creative Hollywood studios, there’s always something new waiting to be experienced. Even for someone who grew up here, exploring LA still feels like a journey that’s far from finished.

Who else deserves some credit and recognition?
My family and relatives deserve a special acknowledgment. Who would I be without the people who shaped my beginnings and continue to stand beside me?

I am also endlessly thankful for my acting school, Playhouse West, and for my remarkable teachers—Wolf, Holly, Gabe, and Froi. Thank you for helping shape the actor I am becoming. And to my fellow actors who began this journey alongside me, it is a beautiful thing to witness one another grow within such a demanding and creative art.

Above all, my faith grounds everything I do. It gives meaning to my work and strength to keep stepping beyond the limits I place on myself. It reminds me that purpose doesn’t live in comfort, but in the courage to discover who you are beyond what feels safe.

I am also grateful for every person whose path has crossed mine—and those I have yet to meet. Your presence, wisdom, and guidance are gifts I carry with me.

And to anyone who simply wishes to feel loved and cared for—may you feel a small piece of that love in these words.

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