We asked folks we admire to share one piece of conventional advice that they disagree with.

Maya Armony | Creative Mystic & Quantum Space Holder

‘Do one thing.’ As much as I understand the value of this advice in cultivating focus and productivity, it has always felt like a constraint to my multipassionate soul. I thrive on doing more than one thing—diverse stimulation doesn’t distract me; it fuels me. It’s how I connect dots, solve problems, and create in ways that feel alive and authentic. Read more>>

Anastasia Gambino | Screenwriter

I don’t think that you need to wait for your career to take off or to be exactly where you think you need to be to have a family.

Obviously this is a bit nuanced – financial stability certainly plays a role, but there are ways to work in the creative industry towards your ultimate goals without having to sacrifice starting a family. I’m not a “tradwife” by any means, I am gung ho on being a working mom, but I believe that there is no such thing as a foolproof formula to do this. I’ve heard many of my friends say, “I want to be a mom, I want to get married, but I want to be further along in my career first, so I probably won’t end up having any kids.” Read more>>

Jasmine Sanders | Broadcast Journalist & Personal Development Coach

To not have a plan B. A backup plan doesn’t diminish your belief or determination to reach your primary goal. Just like planning a savings or retirement account in addition to your checking account, you’re protecting your future. I cringe when I hear people say they are only focused on one thing because they believe putting eggs in any other basket would mean they don’t believe they will be successful in that one thing. Don’t be afraid to dream bigger and not monolithically. This mindset requires dedication and discipline to multi-task and prioritize what’s most important to you. Read more>>

Loren Hogue | Co-CEO of NEUROFIT

The idea that you can simply “change your mindset” is fundamentally flawed for most people in this day and age of chronic stress. 80% of our nervous system carries information from the body to the brain, not the other way around. This means true transformation isn’t about positive thinking and mindset alone, but about understanding and regulating your nervous system through embodiment (body-based) practices. Read more>>

Jaelynn Hinton | Model & Holistic Health Coach

“You can achieve anything you set your mind to”. Okay Okay Okay—within reason, of course. While ambition and perseverance are invaluable, there’s also wisdom in recognizing when a path aligns with your natural strengths and when it might be time to pivot. For years, I embraced the ‘I can do anything’ mindset with no limits, but I’ve since learned that this approach can become unhealthy if you start sacrificing your well-being for goals that may not truly align with you. Read more>>

Pam Mcgeary | Stand up Comic

That talent alone can get you to the top. I’ve met a lot of talented people that just didn’t have the focus or drive necessary to succeed. Read more>>